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Types of Fallacious Thinking

 

FILTERING: You focus on negative details and enlarge them while filtering out the positive aspects of a situation

 

POLARIZED THINKING: You think that things are either black or white, good or bad. You have to be perfect or you're a failure. There is no middle ground.

 

OVER- GENERALIZATION: You come to a general conclusion based on a single incident or piece of evidence. If something bad happens once, you expect it to happen over and over again.

 

MIND READING: Without their saying so, you know what people are feeling and why they act the way they do. In particular, you are able to divine how people are feeling toward you.

 

CATASTROPHIZING: You expect disaster. You notice or hear about a problem and start "what if's"..."What if tragedy strikes? What if it happens to me?"

 

PERSONALIZATION: You think that everything people do or say is some kind of reaction to you. You comulsively compare yourself with others, trying to determine who's smarter, better looking, etc.

 

CONTROL FALLACIES: If you feel externally controlled, you see yourself as helpless, a victim of fate.

 

FALSE RESPONSIBILITY: You feel responsible for the pain and happiness of everyone around you.

 

FALLACY OF FAIRNESS: You feel resentful because you think you know what's fair, but other people won't agree with you.

 

BLAMING: You hold other people responsible for your pain, or take the other track and blame yourself for every problem.

 

SHOULDS: You have a list of ironclad rules about how you and other people should act. People who break the rules anger you and you feel guilty if you violate the rules.

 

EMOTIONAL REASONING: You believe that what you feel must be true -- automatically. If you feel stupid or boring, then you must be stupid and boring.

 

FALLACY OF CHANGE: You expect that other people will change to suit you if you just pressure or cajole them enough. You need to change people because your hopes for happiness seem to depend on them.

 

GLOBAL LABELING: You generalize one or two qualities into a negative global judgment.

 

BEING RIGHT: You are continually on trial to prove that your opinions and actions are correct. Being wrong is unthinkable and you will go to any length to demonstrate your rightness.

 

HEAVEN'S REWARD FALLACY: You expect all your sacrifice and self denial to pay off, as if there were someone keeping score. You feel bitter when the reward doesn't come.