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Assessing the Potential of Your Relationship: Worksheet

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Address the following questions (yes, no, somewhat, I'm not sure, etc.) to help assess the viability of your relationship for long term growth.

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I like, value and respect x.

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X seems to genuinely like and respect me for who I am and appreciate my uniqueness.

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I can relax with x and just be myself.

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I love x and feel a deep affinity and connection.

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X seems to love, honor and cherish me.

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I am physically attracted to x.

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X seems to be physically or sexually attracted and responsive to me.

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I want to share my life with x and establish a committed relationship.

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X says and has shown that they also want a committed relationship.

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We share compatible values and appreciate many of the same things.

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We share compatible beliefs and ideas and have good discussions about things.

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We have compatible life styles so that our daily lives fit together harmoniously.

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We share a spiritual life together and deep intimacy and understanding.

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We have good communication and are open, honest and direct with each other and able to reveal vulnerable emotions.

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We are each aware of the negative issues, beliefs or assumptions that we each have been working on.

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We can accept differences and disagreements but resolve conflicts and misunderstandings.

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Supporting each other in our mutual growth is a conscious dynamic in our relationship.

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We voice our needs, wants, thoughts and feelings with each other and maintain a loving balanced give and take in our relationship.

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We are in general agreement on our goals and the means to realize them.

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We each are self-reliant and have our own lives and interests.

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We each give to one another and support and help the other in their lives.

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We share significant life objectives that we can cooperate on, (ex. children, marriage, career work).

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X could be part of the dream or hope I have for my life.