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Negative Traits Vs. Inner Self Qualities

 

Fear based     —  Love based

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Negative judgments and projections      —  Choosing love, acceptance, positive life

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Compulsive, being driven, stress. — Having a choice, allowing, relaxing

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Having to be "perfect"      —  Accepting one's humanness

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Anger  —  Forgiveness of oneself; accepting one's feelings, needs and limitations

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Resentment  —  Gratitude, appreciation

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Being successful, better, ambitious. —  Being true to one's Self, authentic

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Needing to control, sense of limitation  —  Freedom, space, openness

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Competitive materialistic values  —  Heart-centered, life-oriented values

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Feeling lack, deficiency  —  Feeling self-worth, wholeness

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Anxiety  —  Peace

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Feeling isolation, separation  —  Connection, communication

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Contracting, defending  —  Trusting, opening

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Self-doubt      —  Self-confidence, trusting instincts and intuitions

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Guilt, shame  —  Self-acceptance, self-forgiveness

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"Using" and being "used"  —  Integrity, respect, being true to one's self

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Living by other's expectations, values  —  Living by one's own values and beliefs

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Struggle to achieve ends  —  Flow, things falling into place

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The "rat race", success = happiness  —  A simpler harmonious natural life